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Speech of Thoughts - Mayank SinghMy life is a teacher for me and teaches me new facts of life Everyday December 10 I got AwardedI am very Happy as I got an award for distinguished service on the 3rd December (the Disability day).
I was invited in the spinal injury centre vasant kunj on that occassion and also the Governor of Delhi was also present there as chief guest, it felt very good that for the first time I was standing distinguished from the common public it felt very good....as always I have been a part of crowd and not above it.....but this was the first time after I got the injury that I was acknowledged.
 June 29 I am back homeAt last!!!!.....I have returned to Delhi....Got permanentaly transfered to here ......to my home.....
I always wanted to be at home and do all those things which I always dreamt of doing......as for past 2 and a half year i was andering around in India..it surely was an experience. I really learnt alot....ALOT... most important thing which I learnt is to mingle with people who are not of my age... earliar I used to feel uncomfortable with the persons who were not of my age ....but things have changed now...... Now I can enjoy myself with anyone.....
I really felt the older persons have so much to tell us....so much to guide us..... as I heared from someone that "its not that our elders are always right, but they have more experience of being wrong." and this thing really helps..... they tell us all those wrong things that they had done and there consequences...
I have added one more thing to my theory of life....its that .....it is not that we should only learn with our mistakes but we should learn with others mistake too..... I have started learning this way also....
anyway I really learnt alot and this is just a part of it.....but all this time being away from home I always planned about what I will do after reaching home.....but as now i have reached home ....I am not finding time to do all those things....... I go to office in the morning come home in the evening then get so tired that i cant do anything ...I feel low on energy.....
I hope that soon I will be used to this new schedule and will be able to persue all my dreams than......
Pray for me
Mayank April 08 HEY SLOW DOWN....you LIFE!!Wow.....Look how fast life is running.....As soon as I could understand the present situation it just changes.....I just feel like it was few days back when it was new year and look 3 months are gone....
Life is running so fast through the Golden period of my life that I feel like it just a day...My life has turned into a DAY....
I want to enjoy the life but....its just not giving me the time to do so.....
Nnw I understand the mindset of the person who wrote these lines......."As soon as I find key to success someone changes all the locks"....
 Take Care
Mayank December 23 Devil Inside meyou all would have heared that there is negetive and positive part in each and every person.....
and may be I too have that in me....... but that negetve part is quite fragile in me......
for past few days it was raring to come out.....it was pushing me to do the things which I cant even think of.....but I some how managed to overcome it.....
and I think this is all that matters in the end.....even the greatest of the persons in this world had some thing wrong in them.....but what they did was that they suppressed it and made their goodness even more stronger....when ever the bad or negetive part of one rares to come out, then it should be taken as a challange for your goodself....this will give an energy to combat that negetive feeling....and I am trying it....
Mayank December 21 Talking about About age
Quote About age I am hopelessHas this ever happened to you, that you feel like lost even in your home......
you feel alone even when you are surrounded with all the persons whom you care for and think they also care for you...
well this sort of thing is happening to me....
I sit and think why is it......I even start hating person around me for no reason..... I feel irritated even when person show care for me....I dont know why all these things are hapening to me....I know that this is bad....even when I think about my behavior I feel like I have done wrong...and console myself and try to adjust with my life....but I feel like I dont fit in this puzzle of life....I dont belong to the place I am in....I dont belong to the persons I am around...
I want to change everything around me....I even want to change myself....but am so much tied up in this so called MAYA that I cant move out of it....I want to do meditation but again fail to do it.... may be all the suffering I am going through is destined for me by God.....
I always belived in destiny...I always had faith in it...that it will lead me to a better place in the end.....but right now its all messy....I have even started doubting my thoughts of courage...
Earlier I used to self motivate....I used to say to myself that I can get out of every situation....and my mind and soul also belived my words....and provided me energy to get out of every situation....but now....when I do this my inner soul says...that I am lying.....it dont belive me anymore....
what should I do......I even dont know where to start from......
Hope less
Mayank December 08 Life a StrangerI feel like life is also like a stranger.....you never know about what it is going to bring in the very next moment December 07 challanges or enjoyments......for past few days I have been living alone...being in my condition people normally cant think that how could I make a decision of living alone....
I think for this the problem is not with me but with the way of there thinking.....
for some problem persons can have different views.....for some persons its 6 but for some its 9...... the see the other aspects and I others......
it all depends on the way we percive and take step towards a problem...be it in life,in work environment or in studies.... we start taking fun in challanges and suddenly see that the what seemed to be a very tediuos problem few moments back has changed to an interesting game......
suddenly all the worriesturns into the speculative and sort of detective things...we start seeing pros and cons of a problem and hit at such a point that the problem is solved in the most easiest ways.....
So my living alone may seem like, I am liveing in a challanging eviroment....but I will say I am living in al ife of enjoyment.....
Life is very easy.....its just we who make it complicated.....
Mayank December 06 hi allhi all its been ages since I last time updated my space.....bbut now...I AM BACk......ahm....but dont know for how long...cause its not that I am lazy...I am just motivatonally challanged...sometimes......
Mayank March 29 MY Life....My MysteryThe life is mysterious to me......may it is because I am also a bit mysterious.... Now a days I am going through such a phase of time that I hate the most....the phase of uncertainity, I dont know what to do next.....bust as I write these lines I remember the lines of one of the most intelligent persons I have ever met....her name is Sandra Petty.... she says that if you think like you are not able to do anything then eventually you will end up doing nothing....so I should not think like this........
I am not satisfied with my life right now...and I think I should not be satisfied till when I belive that I deserve more than what at present I am getting from life, this unsatifaction is the driving force that guides me or motivates me to grow....I will make myself satisfied when I feel that "thats it...now that is much that I can acheive."...and then I will make myself satisfied as this satifactio is neccessary for making a person happy.....I dont want to happy now...I want to keep myself unhappy to the extent that I will not sleep..I will not eat...I will not think of anything else other than my growth from my current position...
I want to grow....and I will Grow...may be I will grow only because I want to grow... :)
Mayank
PS: I am really feeling more comfortable and more energetic now...maybe it is because I have found my way out of that uncertainity...now I found what I want what I want to do.....I WANT TO GROW.... March 10 Some thing but nothingToday I started a new journey in my life. Will definietly tell all of you what this journey is all about....soon...some of my close friends know it well what kind of journey I am talking about.....
I dont know what all to say at present but will definetly let all know
Mayank January 17 HELLO EVERYONE!!!!Hello everyone!!!.....you guys may be thinking that i have forgotten about updating my space......no its not......actually past months were the months which really change a person.....these months have really changed me....i lived alone......worked in a job made some relationships some emotional attachments then changed the job changed the place and now i am in a new place in anew job, in a new environment with persons with different personalities then earlier one......all this helped me in adapting to the changes......earlier I was in Daman....an now I am in Jammu ....it is said that it(Jammu) is heaven on Earth....and I must admit that this place is really beautiful...with every kind of beautification that God could create at one place......but the persons here are a bit different in their attitude than the place I was earlier.....I am really feeling hard to adjust here....may be it is because I am trying to see same kind of persons and same kind of feelings in everyone and every person I meet.....
There are many more things/incedences which i want to share....
.............I WILL BE BACK----------------------MAYANK April 23 A sudden ThoughtToday Early in the morning when I was reading a book....I was pondring about a mistake that I had done long long time ago. I was reading the book but was not able to concentrate on it as my mind again and again was wandering on the moments of past. I had to complete the book as it was related to my exam which is sheduled tommorrow. at that time suddenly it came into my mind that as at present I am wasting my time on thinking about the moment of past on which I have no control and in this process not concentrating on the problem in hand, this will again come out as a point to ponder in distant future, when my results will come out, I will again ponder that how better it would be if I had not wasted my time on the things of past...and again will come up as wasted present...
We normally waste our present time either on pondering on past or worrying about future, and thus dont concentrate on present which ultimately result in the failure in distant run of life, also due to all these ponderings we dont enjoy the present which is of our own, as who knows how long we will live?...and past is already gone so neither past nor future is our own. The thing which we can control or which we can enjoy is present, Present is our life. when we waste present we waste our life.
Success will only result if we concentrate only on the problem in our hand and not ponder about either of past and future. This way we can enjoy our present and also we can see the beauty of present task in hand, its intricacies, its details, and could solve it to perfection which will ultimately result as happyness in life....
Life is not a puzzle to solve its a gift to enjoy
Are you enjoying it????
...............===========Mayank April 20 My Expereince IN DamanMy Daman Experience
When I went there, for a week I lived in the office guest house that was booked fpr me....during this time we kept on searching for a suitable accomodation where I could live freely as I am on wheel chair and need to have everthing obstacle free and in approach in home. At last I found a place which was good in all aspects. After shifting to there our next task was to arrange for household things like Gas connection bed etc. for the next one week we arranged for all these things. then My dad how had gone there with me to help me settle over there left, I felt very lonely there as I have never been away from my family for even 2-3 days. But this time I had to live and managemyself alsone for more than a MONTH. but anyway my Paternal uncle was with me, but I am not very close to him and he also tried to cheat me on every aspect of day to day task. Like when I give him money to buy something, he comeout with all the money wasted on other things apart from the thing that I wanted to buy.but anyway anyhow i managed all these days, I also got sick over there as the water was not well purified there and my stomach got upset. My office timings were 7:0 am to 1:30 pm. I was able to reach home around 2:00 after that we start making our meal....tell you that we had never cooked before.....so cooking was more experimentation than just cooking, It normally gets 5:00pm when we get our food on dinning table.....so I could not feel hungry rest of the day and lived with just one time meals. Theres still more to tell about the people and office experience in Daman April 19 I.....AM.....BACKHello Everyone I am back again....but for my exams...they will continue till 29th may...till then I can come online...and have the previlage of being in touch with all you guys...
The Place I have been....Daman.....is a beautiful place and have many things to tell about my experience over there with persons and situations...
Anyway till my next blog..... take care
keep commenting :)
Mayank February 02 BYe Bye To everyoneHello Everyone
I am about to leave for a new place....thats Daman...there I got a job....and I am not sure wether I will have internet connection over there...but anyway I will try my best to visit all of you...So Please never forget me as I also cant forget you....:)
Regards
Mayank February 01 ThoughtTwo things are impossible in this world of Maya: to enjoy more than
Karma hath allotted; to die before one's hour hath struck. January 16 MysteryHas it ever happened to you that you are thinking about someone and that person rings your phone or that person just come at your door on that day.....Is this sheer bychance or is there any reason behind it?....
What are your views?
Do let me know!!
As far as my view is concerned on this topic is like that
I Belive that the mind is the most powerful part of this whole world...and even most complex....and it has the power of control not even our body but also the environment around us.......for example I have tried wuite a few times when I am out in cold and shivering...when I just think with all my will that there is not so cold I start feeling comfortable...Have you ever tried this?.....anyway as far as our topic is concerned, when we think about someone with all our will then our mental power forces that person also to think about us as we all have a sixth sense....even you willadmit it....as how many times it had happened to you that even in a crowded place if someone is looking continuosly at you, you just felt uncomfortable and looked towards that person?......isntit your sixth sense.....so our mental power can interfer others thoughts....and thats why such strange thing happens
............Mayank
do let me know about your views January 10 Exponential HappinessHappiness and Sadness both are very much same ...(IN Behavior)...both increase as we think about it.....If you think about the sad moments of your life then you will have more sad moments in your life to ponder upon as the present also will be burdened with the sadness of past and you will feel weak and fragil towards the obstacles of life...as obstacles are always there in every ones life and the person which seem to be free from obstacles and difficulties are just the persons who had learnt to ignore there adverse of life the moments when they had lost the game....Every loss is not had happened in life to ponder over but it has happened to teach something new and wehave to learn from our mistakes which resulted in that loss....as it is nicely said from some one that "THE REAL MISTAKE IS THAT FROM WHICH WE DONT LEARN ANYTHING AND MAKING MISTAKES IS NOT BAD BUT REPEATING THEM IS"....thinking about sadness makes us weak
Happiness on the other hand gives us power and it also increases as thinking about the past happy moments expels its power and makes the present lighter and brighter too ..... thinking about past happy moments gives us the power to face difficulties of the present and as we think about the light moments of life we feel a new freshness in our thoughts and feel like regained all the power to tackle the present ....and as we have the power to tackle the adverse and could face them without fear it again gives us happiness...thus happiness increases Exponentially...
SO think about your happiest moment of life and tell me how it feels...:)
Always Laugh in life
as laughing is the essence of life
keep such an attitude towards life
that whoever see you feel how beautiful is Life
Mayank
January 01 Happy New YearHello Everyone
Wish you a Very Happy New year!!!!
Mayank
I wish you Health...
So you may enjoy each day in comfort. I wish you the Love of friends and family... And Peace within your heart. I wish you the Beauty of nature... That you may enjoy the work of God. I wish you Wisdom to choose priorities... For those things that really matter in life. I wish you Generosity so you may share... All good things that come to you. I wish you Happiness and Joy... And Blessings for the New Year. I wish you the best of everything... That you so well deserve.
Happy New Year AGAIN December 17 Believe in yourself"Depend not upon external supports, nor beg your tranquillity of another. In a word, never throw away your legs to stand upon crutches." December 11 A Thought"Do not let accidents disturb, or outward objects engross your thoughts; but keep your mind quiet and disengaged, to be ready to learn something good." December 03 Make the DifferrenceA man was walking down the beach at sunset. As, he walked along, he saw another man in the distance. He noticed this man kept leaning down, picking up something and throwing it out into the water, again and again. As, he approached even closer, he noticed that the man was picking up starfish that had been washed up on the beach. He was throwing them back into the water, one by one.
Puzzled, he approached the man and said,
"Good Evening. I was wondering what you are doing." "I'm throwing these starfish back into the ocean. You see, it's low tide and all these starfish have been washed up onto the shore. If, I don't throw them back into the ocean, they'll die up here from lack of oxygen."
"But, there must be thousands of starfish on this beach. You can't possible get to all of them. And, don't you realize this is probably happening on hundreds of beaches all up and down this coast. Can't you see that you can't possibly make a difference?"
The man bent down and picked up yet another starfish, and threw it back into the ocean. With a smile he replied, "Made a difference to that one !!!"
it really does makes a difference. Make a difference today. Do something nice for someone else and MAKE A DiFFERENCE in there life November 15 listenWith tears in my eye
I am sitting here in my stranded life
I tried to talk and mouth my emotions
but everyone is going fast in motions
My vision is getting blurred with tears
Hold my hand so that I could fight with my moron years
Please Listen to me
if you care for me
With streched hands....waiting for some one to hold them
Mayank
November 14 A Wrong Doing "To forgive without forgetting, is again to reproach the wrong-doer every time the act comes back to us." |
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